5 Cause Lazy to Making Love

After being married for a long time, some couples may be discouraged or lazy to make love. There are various causes why married couples are no longer keen to make love, but they still love each other. Dr.Marty Klein, a sex therapist and author of the book 'SEXUAL INTELLIGENCE : What We Really Want From Sex - And How to Get It', revealed five things that make you and your husband have lazy sex.

1 . Only Focus Getting Orgasm

According to Dr.Marty, it is normal that people no longer want sex when he was less enjoy the activity. There are many reasons why a person does not enjoy intimate relationships. Among other things, just focus on making her orgasm so even reaching climax and not considered important foreplay.

If it was you or the husband of the above, try to recall the days of courtship. Dr.Marty said, the long-married couples usually no longer passion for kissing. It is certainly different from the courtship. Whereas it with you and your husband can kiss passionately. According to sex therapist from the United States, the kiss is the most intimate sexual activity.

2 . Covered with Negative Feelings

Intimacy is difficult to create if you or your husband just focus on performance during sex or feel guilty, ashamed and anxious. All the uneasy feeling that is created when the couple often quarreled. Distance created between you and your husband, it will eliminate the mood for romance.

3 . Enthusiasm subsided

One of the things that people want to feel special during sex is and desirable  So when you have sex with a partner who looks lazy, even though he is quite adept , it remains difficult to feel both. In that case, you are no longer concerned with mastery and the more attention he is not enthusiastic. Affirmed Dr.Marty, enthusiastic couple who can always make a husband or wife passionate. While couples are ignorant, can kill the passion.

4 . Also has not Couple Understanding Interest

You and your husband would not want to be stuck in the same routine or habit each sex. But of course there are certain things that you like and dislike during sex . If over the years to make love, you must repeat the husband does not like being bitten while kissing, of course it can make you lazy long do these activities .

5 . Feels Painful Sex

There is pain arising during lovemaking is generally caused due to lack of vaginal lubrication or endometriosis. In certain cases, pain during sex caused by a congenital condition of the body or a variety of other things depending on the person's physical condition. One of the physical symptoms that cause pain during sex is medically known as vulvodynia or vulvar vestibulitis. Until now, the experts still do not know exactly what the cause of the condition. (EM/report)

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